Still Coming Out: Our Evolving Identity as Older LGBTQ+ People

in 

Santa Fe

Campus
Santa Fe, USA
Dates
Jun 17
 to 
Jun 22, 2024
Led By
Dr. Angela Goepferd
Christian de la Huerta
Wolf Martinez
Chip Conley

Over the course of our lifetime, our identity evolves, and this may be more so for those in the LGBTQ+ community, as we’re continually coming out in new ways beyond our gender or sexual orientation: spiritually, emotionally, and relationally. Join us on this explorative journey of belonging, self-discovery, and the soulful expression of who we are.

“Aging while queer” is a topic not widely discussed within the gay community. While it offers a different experience than hetero-normative culture, there’s quite a bit of upside if you’re conscious and intentional about your aging journey. This workshop will focus on mentoring, reclaiming one’s spiritual heritage (given our location in Santa Fe, we will explore the history of the “two-spirit” people through Wolf Martinez), uniting our diverse voices under the LGBTQ+ umbrella, becoming a political force, and consciously curating a “we-tirement” life that involves aging with chosen family.

What you’ll do

The MEA core curriculum forms the foundation of each workshop we offer and is focused on equipping you with the skills to navigate transitions, break through life obstacles, and tap into your deeper life purpose.

Additionally, in this particular workshop, our expert faculty will take you on an interactive and life-changing journey that will empower you to:

  • Develop a stronger sense of belonging within the community
  • Learn how to leverage your identity to foster a deeper sense of purpose and leave a meaningful legacy
  • Tune into the stillness within you (we will incorporate breathwork)
  • Challenge yourself to be open to new gender and sexual identities and pronouns
  • Recognize the parallels between gender-fluidity and age-fluidity
  • Reinvest yourself as a creative artist that is a soulful expression of who you are
  • Explore how your painful life lessons have made you wiser
  • Create a plan to foster more intergenerational connections in your life
  • Understand the significance of unity across the entire LGBTQ+ movement
These workshops will help you master the tools, strategies, and mindset shifts to embrace change, overcome challenges, and thrive in times of transition, transforming your life into a more purposeful and joyful one.

We’ve carefully and intentionally designed your days on campus to facilitate the best possible experience and maximize your investment into you.

Join us if you feel your transition has become protracted and you need greater support and attention to skillfully transition to your next chapter.

MEA was the container within which I could recreate who I wanted to be and step into that with confidence.

JD Schramm
California, USA

MEA's team is composed of growth-minded individuals who are passionately dedicated to providing the mindset and tools to support our collective mission to discover purpose, grow wiser, and gracefully transition through the many stages of midlife. We are rooted in our commitment to community and guided by the belief that wisdom is shared, not taught.

Dr. Angela Goepferd
Dr. Angela Goepferd
Guest Faculty

Angela Kade Goepferd, MD, (they/them) is the Chief Education Officer and founder/medical director of the Gender Health Program at Children's Minnesota. Dr. Goepferd is a leader in the LGBTQ community who is driving equitable care for LGBTQ youth, particularly transgender and gender diverse youth, and is a sought-after speaker on these topics.

Christian de la Huerta
Christian de la Huerta
Guest Faculty

Christian de la Huerta is a personal transformation coach, spiritual teacher, TEDx speaker, and award-winning author of Coming Out Spiritually and Awakening the Soul of Power, described by music icon Gloria Estefan as “a balm for the soul.”

Wolf Martinez
Wolf Martinez

Wolf Martinez is a Two Spirited Native American Ceremonial Leader, facilitates retreats, and healing sessions nationally, and internationally. He is a personal guide, teacher of Indigenous perspectives on relationships and life ways. He brings the ancient wisdom of gender roles, being human, and our Original Instructions.

Chip Conley
Chip Conley
Founder

Chip Conley is a hospitality entrepreneur, New York Times best-selling author, and the founder and CEO of MEA. His two most recent books, Wisdom@Work: The Making of a Modern Elder and Learning to Love Midlife: 12 Reasons Why Life Gets Better With Age, are the foundation for MEA’s curriculum.

Join us if you feel your transition has become protracted and you need greater support and attention to skillfully transition to your next chapter.

All of MEA’s workshops are designed to support you to consciously curate the second half of your adult life. Our curriculum offers three paths through MEA content:

Navigating
Transitions
  • Manage midlife change effectively. Understand the stages of transitions and the necessary TQ (transitions quotient) intelligence to move through them more easily.
Cultivating
Purpose
  • Find meaning and curiosity when exploring big decisions, or evolving into your next chapter of life. Understand purpose as a regenerative tool.
Owning
Wisdom
  • Identify and lean in to the wisdom you have developed to date. Look at a generative second adulthood, engaging in new purposes, new communities, time spent on something greater than yourself.

All workshops provide a comprehensive set of tools to use right away, a deep connection with a new community, and a 5-star hospitality experience to allow you to recharge and get ready for what’s next. You will learn:

  • Hacks: practical tools that you can practice while you’re here
  • Habits: longer term practices that will impact your daily life
  • Practices: a point of inflection and reflection to support your ongoing journey.

Shift your mindset as we provide you with:

  • The space to ask great questions
  • The inspiration to think differently
  • The time to reflect
  • The resources to support your path

Themed in-person workshops are grounded in research based upon collaboration with academics and prestigious institutions like Stanford, UC Berkeley, Harvard, and Yale. Guest faculty weeks feature a chance to experience a deeper dive into their unique content paired with our MEA experiences.

Learning at all stages of life is the glue that drives us to purpose, community, and our evolving wellbeing. Make a commitment to staying healthier, continuing to grow, having an open mindset, and giving back to the world. Instead of “lifelong learning”, we believe “long life learning,” creates a life that is as deep and meaningful as it is long.

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 to 
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 to 
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 to 
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Discover the perfect blend of nature and luxury amenities at MEA's new Rising Circle Ranch, situated 25 minutes south of downtown. This marks our inaugural U.S. campus and is the first American “midlife wisdom school." Spanning a vast and exclusive 4-square-mile expanse, this secluded haven provides a remote yet conveniently reachable escape in the culturally vibrant Santa Fe region.

So does this enchanting space and learning belong together? Think of it this way: When you’ve had a moment to exhale, and your shoulders begin to relax, you’ll understand what a beautiful setting can do for your state of mind.

To help you plan your trip please arrive by 4PM on the start date of your workshop and depart anytime on the last date.

Food & Beverage

The cuisine of northern New Mexico is renowned for its unique blend of Native American, Spanish, and Mexican influences, resulting in dishes that feature bold flavors and a rich cultural tapestry. All meals, beverages and alcohol are included in the cost of the workshop.

Chef Tony Peralta, our famed chef from MEA in Baja, Mexico will oversee the menu development of our Santa Fe campus and will be sourcing organic, local ingredients to create a unique culinary experience.
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Join us if you feel your transition has become protracted and you need greater support and attention to skillfully transition to your next chapter.
Private Room
Space all to yourself

$

6000

Shared Room
Meet a new pal

$

4500

All prices in USD. A 7% tax and $100 service fee will be added to your final invoice.
Included In Your Tuition
  • Three meals per day with vegetarian, vegan and gluten-free options
  • Curriculum and workbook
  • Yoga and meditation
  • Off-campus explorations
  • A few (maybe more than a few) festive parties

Financial Aid

We know that our entire society is made stronger when everyone has the opportunity to learn, participate, and grow, regardless of economic status. To support diverse learning we are committed to having a portion of our workshop participants receive an award. We offer two levels of financial aid on a need-aware basis.

Gold

$

3000

Participants are responsible for $3,000 tuition (50% of full workshop tuition) and their travel costs. We will announce gold-level awards within 5 days of application submission. You will be placed on an upgrade waitlist for a private room – exceptions for specific medical or personal conditions may be considered.

Platinum

$

500

Participants are responsible for only $500 tuition (only 8% of full workshop tuition) and their travel costs. We will announce platinum-level awards no more than 5 weeks before the requested workshop start date. Applicants requesting financial aid will be in a shared room with another participant.

Given how much demand we have for this most generous form of financial aid, a small percentage of those who apply are able to be accepted.

Cancellation

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Join us if you feel your transition has become protracted and you need greater support and attention to skillfully transition to your next chapter.